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When a death occurs, knowing
how to comfort those left behind is not easy. As difficult as it
is to know what to say, sending sympathy flowers or funeral flowers
can be sometimes even more difficult.
Our staff are very experienced at providing quality
arrangements, and can cater sympathetically for most requests. Home
visits to the immediate family of the bereaved living locally, by
our senior florists, to assist with the choice of floral tributes,
can also be arranged.
Funeral FAQs
What
is appropriate?
There are rules of etiquette that say what type of floral arrangements
are appropriate, this is based mostly on the sender’s relationship
with the deceased and their family. However, anyone may send
bouquets or arrangement, prior to the funeral, with messages
of Sympathy. These are generally of an all occasion type, and are
sent to the bereaved’s home or workplace.
Tributes, in the shape of wreaths,
crosses, and sprays,
are available in many sizes, these are appropriate when sent by
anyone other than those not acquainted with the deceased. The exception
to this would be associations that would like to honour the deceased
for service during their lifetime.
From close family, Hearts,
Cushions & Pillows
or larger sprays for
the top of the coffin are the most usual and appropriate style of
tribute – you may memorialise someone by choosing a special design
based on an aspect of their personality, their occupation, an association
membership, forces connection or a hobby – these are known as personalised
tributes.
Is
it alright to send brightly-coloured flowers for a funeral?
Certainly – bright flowers can reflect on the energetic personality
of the deceased. They may be chosen to send a message about how
we felt about that person, that in life, they gladdened our hearts
and made us feel happy to have known them.
Would
it be alright to send flowers if the death notice requests a charitable
donation in lieu of flowers?
Speaking personally, Yes. Floral tributes are a gift from you to
the deceased; they do say that flowers are for the living – and
yes, they are….Flowers at the funeral service not only add warmth
and life to a sombre event, they are a tangible tribute. They also
let the bereaved know, visibly, how much their loved one touched
the lives of others. Flowers are always appropriate and appreciated.
I’ve
missed the funeral, is it Ok to send flowers to the family’s home?
If so, for how long afterwards?
Absolutely. Floral honours are always appreciated, no matter when
they are received. Even if you will also be attending the funeral,
sending flowers to the bereaved’s home is a wonderful gesture. Some
people choose to send flowers a week or so after the funeral, after
the necessary chaos of a death. It has actually become popular to
send flowers to the home over a period of time after the funeral
to remind the bereaved we are still thinking of them and their loss.
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